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You were my reason for living and you will continue to be so for all eternity … I love you, I love you and I will love you forever. I don’t forgive you because it makes me feel like a good person. She has two main purposes in life: feed hungry bellies and help inspire people to live a life of joy and love. I guess these are answers that I will take a little while to discover, or maybe I will never know. The negativity would haunt you the rest of your life consciously or uncounsciously. It is going to take more time than I first realized especially because of my two children and soon to be ex husband are the ones that have caused such pain. Forgiveness is not easy and it’s not for the weak..but it’s so important for our healing. This isn’t to anyone in particular. I am starting over fresh, with my high school sweetheart. I’m a better person since I grew and forgave! Keeping it real! Hey Patti I’d say you definitely got the shitty end of the stick BUT thank God you are free from all that drama. without the ex . God bless you too! I’M glad you are doing better. And still wonder why I cut them out of my life. Click on the link below to read my very own love letter to me :). I don't really believe that you would do it to hurt me, either, but I couldn't believe it when Christine told me that you had asked her out and that the two of you went to dinner on Tuesday. My heart goes out to anyone going thru such as this. Even if you fall out of love, you can state this reason because break-up is anyways a sensitive matter. I talk an awful lot about forgiving others. Because if you are really angry and hurt at someone else, you can try to release it, but the pain will remain every-time you see them and it will come back eventually. You were one of the most important people in my life, perhaps the most important so far. I think you will really like it. If you need to write this letter to a family member, boss, best friend, or whoever, just do it.eval(ez_write_tag([[250,250],'amazingmemovement_com-mobile-leaderboard-1','ezslot_16',187,'0','0'])); Write as often as you have to, as often as the urge hits you. It wasn’t hurting you at all. YOU certainly don’t need it. I’m gonna talk about why and how to write a forgiveness letter and share a copy of my own for you. love and bless Alex. xoxo. You mentioned 6 things that you offered up. I say goodbye loving you and I want you to know that I will never stop thinking about you … And I love you, always. They can straight up lie to your face and never care. Took a bit long to figure out he was stringing me along. Wow, what a bullet to the head and heart. It’s been over 4 years. You can't push someone away because you had strong feelings for them and you're not used to that. Yesterday I was told that she was at my home with her moving truck from Pennsylvania. Everything is different now and while I’m in pain, I’m positive you couldn’t really be bothered. And he has to lie his head down every night on his pillow. In some ways, I can understand – I don’t completely blame you. It’s not my fault if they did what they did. But I am also aware that things have changed enormously and I will not continue to force myself to force things. I will read it to achieve mine!! You have to understand that. :). Again thank you for your letter for it really has given me hope and a place to start my healing process. xoxo, self worth and self love – yes yes yes – these 2 will carry you a long way once you “get it”. Thank you love you!! and I realised how far I’d come when they asked what had happened with my ex and I realised I couldn’t actually be arsed to explain lol!!!! I take each day as it comes and am waiting to let go. My youngest son’s dad. At some point I will learn to live with memories, although unfortunately I know it will not be today, nor tomorrow. Freeing your heart. Write and cry your eyes out at the same time if you have to. Thank you for the hurt and the pain you caused, and for breaking me down so I can build myself back up. What’s happened is behind us now. I forgive you for me, not for you. And blocked them on my phone. Please, even if I have to say goodbye to you, never forget that I have a great affection for you and that I hope that time makes you remember me in the same way that I will. Hey Colleen thanx for your comment and reading the blog. The trick is to not let it keep us down! 2017 is gonna rock. His actions no longer consume me!!!! I have found my joy again. You ‘ve just touched the greatest part of my Heart. Hi iva, your letter is a result of your experience​, nice letter, it is really a worthful one. Women can get away with writing these types of things to complain how she was betrayed, hurt, ect. eval(ez_write_tag([[250,250],'amazingmemovement_com-narrow-sky-1','ezslot_18',193,'0','0']));eval(ez_write_tag([[250,250],'amazingmemovement_com-narrow-sky-1','ezslot_19',193,'0','1'])); For the longest time, I hated you. You have to want this freedom more than the pain you are holding onto. You done that. Honey that was very bold, risk-taking (in some cases, maybe not yours), and needed for you to write that. I don’t know what I’m going to expect tomorrow or if I will meet someone with whom it is my turn to stay permanently. Click the button below. eval(ez_write_tag([[250,250],'amazingmemovement_com-large-mobile-banner-1','ezslot_0',186,'0','0']));eval(ez_write_tag([[250,250],'amazingmemovement_com-large-mobile-banner-1','ezslot_1',186,'0','1'])); I believe everyone who has been hurt by a boyfriend, husband, wife, or even a family or friend needs to write a forgiveness letter. I have no trouble getting everything out. Even when caught in a lie a female will never admit it. (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Dear You.eval(ez_write_tag([[300,250],'amazingmemovement_com-large-mobile-banner-2','ezslot_2',175,'0','0'])); I know we never talk about the pain and that’s ok. We don’t need to. There’s no other way you are going to come to a place of inner peace and self-love until you do this. Dear you, As I sit here writing this to you, I can’t help but remember all the promises you told me, how you would always love me, how you’d never leave me or hurt me. That person took some of the deepest parts of myself with them. Days, months,  years even and I found something. Love myself too much to put up with the bullshit. He kissed you with the same surreal brilliance that captivated you so deeply. Yup, this is for all of you, any of you, and none of you. I am a good person, I am stronger than I ever realised, I am trying to be both mum and dad to my sons, and we are doing ok!!! I do sincerely hope you find happiness, peace, joy, and love. Everything has ended with love, although my soul hurts, I can no longer be by your side … Giant is my pain, but it would be bigger if we continue with this lie that ruins our lives …. Three of those six stand out strong in my mind. God bless you and keep you strong! Don’t leave out one single solitary thing. The letter you write in anger and pain is definitely the letter you should burn in the fireplace. Given Below are a few Break up letter samples for a clearer Idea. You, my friend, need it the most. It’s hell. Breakup Letter. I also believe that when we write ourselves ‘love letters’ if you will, it helps remind us of how amazing we truly are. Trust me on that. It’s just going out to all of them. Please check it out here. It has been during this whole time that I’ve truly lost myself. Write a letter of your own, read thousands of letters from all over the world or check out the latest on the blog, where we touch on everything to do with break-ups, exes, single life, dating and relationships in general. (this post contains affiliate links so if you make a purchase I make a small commission-affiliate disclosure). It is impossible for you to know how much my goodbye hurts, because I am sure that sooner or later you will be able to forget me and instead, I will remember you all the time with immense affection. It tears you apart physically, mentially, emotionally it’s just NO GOOD!! Absolutely beautiful! I don’t know how I can explain everything that confuses me right now. Did you love this post? So hard is having to say goodbye. February 8, 2020. How could you possibly be that nasty to someone in your family? Writing this letter to you makes my heart hurt. That guy is not just for her. The best thing I can do is ask you not to hate me for leaving this way; because you have to know that I would have liked to avoid suffering for you. I can tell through your words and your actions that you are heartbroken. Why did I stop reading after 200-300 words? It’s another letter except this one is a forgiveness letter to your self. That he will never know what it is like to love and be loved. I never wish ill on anyone, not even ex’s and like you, I am sad that they will never know how to love. I had a million people in my life I needed to forgive.eval(ez_write_tag([[336,280],'amazingmemovement_com-box-4','ezslot_4',185,'0','0'])); If I wanted to move on and have a happier life, it was MANDATORY for me to forgive all those who hurt me so I could move on with my life and leave the pain, past, and hurt all behind. Your email address will not be published. And you can write a letter if you want. Wow! In this farewell I wish you all the happiness in the world and find the love and happiness you seek and deserve. Yes, you hurt me, more than once and so incredibly deep I thought I would die. Lovely piece to regain peace. Thank you for sharing your story Pam. I know that this letter is going to hurt you very much, but then I have no options left. Thank you for the tears you made me cry, and for all the times you made me feel like I was not good enough. I will always love them. Stop right there. Left me to raise our children and left me to … And I will love you a thousand times as I love you right now … And there is nothing that comforts the pain of not having you with me …  I have never suffered so much from being away from someone … And I love you as I have never loved anyone, angel of my heart. it's effortlyss. It is an irony to tell you my heaven, maybe it is a trick of life, so much I told you in life that today, after your death, you are literally. so im asking you for advise…is.it to late to write and if not any ideas on how to begin? I have so many mixed feelings, I can barely ask myself where I should start when it comes to saying goodbye. I would love to send it to my former boss who did me dirty. Some may say I let him damage me by not forgetting and letting go of what transpired. The man I loved at the time physically hurt me, once to the point of being hospitalized. However, breaking up in such a shorter term paints a picture if the relationship was ever meant to be. I hope you change. Barbara, Awe I love your story and your courage Barbara!! I have no clue. I would rather be by myself and be happy then to be with someone who takes advantage of me. So be happy. You’re gonna love this one. Those three alone are enough to completely destroy just about any woman!! But I think I’m more hurt than angry. Goodnight and God Bless If you take the “average” female and male. And that was the biggest hurt of all. But when you have truly looked at your relationship and tried everything you can to fix the parts of it that aren’t working out for you, then it’s time to prioritize your happiness. I spewed out your name. I pray that the day comes I can sit down to write such a letter like you have. It has also.effected me with trust issues on the job as well as socializing. Kudos. I love your letter but can’t see me being able to say I forgive him. The truth is that I feel that I deserve it, because I am hurting you and that is what I would have never wanted. I’m just not rhe kind of person who can kick him to the curb. Trust me on that! I just want you to know one thing: beyond all time and distance, my heart will love you forever. It kills any chance of inner peace and happiness. The “average” female is so much worse in so many ways. But I didn't die. You made me believe in love, in illusion, in shared dreams, and although I know that our love is not accepted, I cannot help feeling that this is stronger than my love for my family. But I am also aware that things have changed enormously and I will no longer force myself to force them. I moved out of the house he and I built together with our own hands in June 2017. Forgiving others doesn’t mean we condone their behaviour. I love you a thousand times, but I can’t do it anymore … And I say goodbye because I can’t love you anymore; because everything hurts and nothing is healthy; because there is no cure for so much pain… Until always love, until never my life. you’ve said all the things I felt after being in a Narcissistic relationship. I just found out in February my husband of 25 years has been carrying on with his ex-fiance’ from thirty years ago for over a year now. And try to blame me. :) Stay true to you. There is no way in hell that when you were laying in bed that night, that you didn’t feel the teeniest bit like a jerk for what you did. We do the best we can depending on the situation we are in. Break up letter to someone you love I need to let off steam so I’m writting you this letter, even though I don’t want you to read it. Tormenting me. I lived for our us!!! For others it would have to be for who they are as a person rather than one thing they ever did, ya know? She can not destroy me as I am a strong woman and will move forward in time. He stole 25 years of my life, my home, my time, my hard earned money and my soul. I do not wish him Ill will. You didn’t feel a thing. You’re right, we all have been screwed. By forgiving others, we are forgiving. But I am happy to say, that only a few months have passed and I am so happy. Thank you so much Iva. I feel sad for you but there is hope for you. In order for your letter … You're different then what you make people believe. A simple, small and lovely way to say “Thank you Iva”!! SO powerful as well! Love letters to say goodbye. Then two months ago I was watching a movie about a woman who was so full of life and was murdered. You told me that it was the best for both of us, because at this point, we can no longer continue in the same direction. I say goodbye to your kisses that I will always remember even if I can’t have them…. What’s done is done and there’s nothing you can do differently now except learn and grow from what happened. Breathe and love. The best thing I can do is ask you not to stop me by leaving this way; because you have to know that I would have liked to avoid suffering. So to all the ladies afraid to leave or struggling with the should I or shouldn’t I……… Listen to your gut. I helped run his construction business mentally and physically and did his bookkeeping for the last 25 years. Each day is a constant struggle for me. Your message should include exactly what you did to hurt your friend, how you feel about […] Does what I share with you move you in any way shape or form? Females are soooo judgmental. I love you in my life, until never.​​. You did. I have cried so many times for you and I have laughed at you too, that I look back and I can’t believe that things can end right now. I don’t really have room in my head anymore to wonder why and how you could be so mean, such a jerk, a thief, a liar, etc. Every time I heard your name or thought of the terrible thing you did my blood would boil and I would get angry, so angry, sometimes even scream and cry.eval(ez_write_tag([[468,60],'amazingmemovement_com-leader-3','ezslot_8',177,'0','0'])); Life is short. She is a good woman, she is a seamstress and faithful confidant of the daughter, she does not know me personally, but I have the feeling of doing so much of what we have heard from the other. Although your letter does not go into detail each situation you endured, it however gives me hope with what I am currently experiencing. If you don’t recognize that you have a part to play in your own break-up, you aren’t going to make different choices in the future. Without doing that, you never would have that TRUE feeling of release in your body. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. But sometimes the story is different n people who effect n changes your life hv a long lasting effect on your life . I caught up with some old friends recently (ones he had made me sever contact with!) It could be that you chose to be with someone against the advice of your friends and loved ones. I feel for them deeply. Left me to make all the mistakes, and answer for them. it’s all expressed here so beautifully. Have faith. It blows my mind. I will befriend someome and then put up a wall and damage that relationship, not intentionally, but then realize it after the fact. When my children where old enough I apologized for all they had to go through with my depression etc and explained what happen. I’m booting those worst 6 months of my life with her to the curb. If you recognize yourself in here, well, ya. God Bless You Dear, Thank you for reading and glad this touched you! This coming from the woman who thought that she couldn’t live or survive without this man. Thank you. I want you to know that I have never loved or loved someone as much as you, and will continue to do so beyond death, because now that ours has to end, a part of me dies. Yay you!! Don’t you want to be happy? Oh wait you have. You could be a lover, friend, parent, child, or borderline stranger. Maybe you really don’t like me. ... but mine was bigger. It’s so hard having to say goodbye to you. Too often we beat ourselves up over things that happened in the past. Not used to deal with the should I or shouldn ’ t have. 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